Sometimes, when we feel that everything goes wrong for us, we make more mistakes then to solve our problems. That is what I did too, without thinking that I am the only person that can help me and no matter, what I should go on! Now I know, and I thank God I had the power to change myself.

Two years ago, my dad died in a car accident, that time I was pregnant and wanted to marry my boyfriend. After my dad died, I felt terrible, like nothing was good in my life. At one month after my dad died, I’ve lost the baby. It was hard, and I hated everyone who stayed by my side. I wanted to be alone, but you know how it is: be careful what you wish for `cause it might happen! I broke up with my boyfriend, my mother suffered as well for the loss of my father. It was too much for me. I was stressed, and I wanted not to feel so much pain in my soul, so I started to cut my self. I become a self harmer without realizing it. I thought that feeling an outside pain it will kill the inside one. The razor became to be my best friend, it was always ready to make me feel something for killing a huger pain: the one from my soul. I did it for month, and no one knew what I do each day I reminded myself of my problems. One day my mom saw my knuckles. She asked me what happened and I have told her that I had an accident, she believed me, how couldn’t she, I was 24 years old. But after a few months she saw the marks again, and she realized what I am really doing to my knuckles. We talk, and she said to me that it was really hard for her too, that I am young, I still have a life in front of me, I could have another baby someday, I could get married and love with the power she loved dad, but for her, things aren’t so easy. She’s old, and she had lost her husband, she doesn’t want to lose her daughter too. From that day, we went together to a specialist. I feel much better now, and I realized that sometimes you should pay attention on what you have, not on what you had lost. More then that, your life is more important then any problem or pain. I know the sun will shine for me too, someday!

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