The Bad Boy (danger)
Someone who’s dangerous and thrilling to be around. Bad boys are everything from gangsters to bikers to some rock and roll musicians. These guys are usually tough, dress tough, and act tough as often as possible. They drink, smoke, get tattoos, and generally demonstrate in every way possible that they’re from the wrong side of the tracks, and your mother would not approve. Examples: Tommy Lee, Mickey Rourke, any guy on a Harley, and Sammy The Bull. Why do women love them? Danger Will Robinson! There is an addictive emotional rush being around a guy that could literally do ANYTHING. A lot of these guys wind up beating their model girlfriends and spending time in jail.

Later, the woman says “He made a mistake, and I love him…” Amazing. These guys almost always control their women. Anyway, I wouldn’t recommend being the extreme version of this one. You can get a tattoo and buy a Harley and act all bad, but it’s really not making to you a better person to become a criminal. I have to mention that this personality type is the one that women are most MAGNETICALLY attracted to. Again, this is because of the addictive rush that comes from being around them.

The Adventurer (fun)
Someone who’s fun and exciting to be around. The Adventurer is constantly looking for the next fun experience. Adventurers love to go surfing, skiing, racing, bungee-jumping, and skydiving. Think Indiana Jones and James Bond. They are fearless. Instead of being bad to get thrills, they usually like to do crazy things to get thrills. Their appeal is much the same as the Bad Boy, except that these guys don’t usually wind up beating their women. Women like to be around them because they drive fast, go interesting places, and generally have a sense of ‘adventure’ about everything they do. They have the attitude of “What adventure is waiting around the next corner” - even if they’re just going out to dinner.

They have a colorful way of slightly exaggerating every story and emphasizing the adventurous points. Adventurers are like Bad Boys in that they like fast toys and fast women. Women are attracted to them because they are a kick to be around - and they often have more than one woman at a time (and I mean this both ways!) And women totally accept this from them. Women usually understand on an unconscious level that this is the type of guy that loves more than one woman. They’re also damn fun. I have a couple of Adventurer buddies, and they’re always talking about how much fun everything is, and the fun they’re going to have tonight and tomorrow. They have extreme optimism, which women LOVE. Again, Adventurers are usually in control in relationships, and can never be tamed. A curious point: most of the Adventurers that I know cheat on their girlfriends or spouses. Hugh Hefner is an ‘Adventurer’ personality.

The Seducer (sex)
Someone who is sensual and sexy and makes her feel sexy. Seducers are all about women. They understand women completely. As a matter of fact, I sometimes think that maybe they were women in past lives or something. I have to read, struggle, and work to understand women. Seducers seem to have a natural way with them. To most men, a Seducer seems bizarre, and even slightly homosexual. They do things that are pretty far out. Watch the movie ‘Don Juan DeMarco’ with Johnny Depp. This movie is the epitome of the Seducer.

Don Juan can only see the world through his romantic perspective, which is magnetic to women. Seducers are usually submissive, as they are constantly pleasing the woman, and paying careful attention to her needs. The flip side is that as soon as they have gotten what they want from a woman (sex), they’re gone. Sure, they may come back for romantic evenings of sex, but they are not often around for the long term.

The Artist (Musician, Poet) (emotion)
Someone who moves her emotions and is enigmatic and complex. Why is Barry White so famous for swooning the chicks? Why do women love guys like Kurt Kobain and other equally twisted, introverted guys? I believe that the answer lies inside the psyche of women. Women like to have challenges, and they like to help people. The Artist personality is both complex and in need of help and understanding. Most Artists see the world much differently than other people. They look at tree and see a giant feather duster, or they see a color and can taste it. If you think I’m kidding, I’m not. I’ve spent years studying psychology, and there are some people that have their senses and perceptions combined and linked in unusual ways.

Women can usually understand the Artist’s expressions better than other men can. And they are usually very attracted to these personalities for this very reason. The Artist needs someone to understand them, and there’s always a woman who needs someone to be understood. Most Artists are not in control of the woman in their lives, because they’re not in control of THEMSELVES. They are usually disorganized, and completely unaware of time, etc. If you want to become an Artist, also work on the other areas of your life to stay in balance. Unfortunately, most Artists don’t have very healthy personalities.

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