Since their invention in the nineteenth century, the durable pants known as blue jeans or dungarees were commonly worn by cowboys and farmers and, later, children and teenagers. Starting in the late 1970s, however, a new kind of jean appeared in the marketplace. Called designer jeans, they were fashioned for style rather than practicality. They were worn skin-tight to accentuate the body’s curves.
Choosing birth control…
There are two ways to enjoy sex without getting pregnant….sex other than vaginal intercourse or vaginal intercourse with birth control. The use of birth control is an individual and private matter. It affects your body, relationships and lifestyle. There is no perfect choice in birth control. Get the facts you need and talk to people you trust. Choose a method that’s right for you. Always use latex condoms along with your birth control method to lower your chances of getting sexually transmitted infections (STIs) including Human Immunodeficiency Virus or HIV - the virus that causes AIDS (Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome).
So how do you best stimulate these other four senses in a way that will turn her on? Now that’s a GREAT question.
1. Touch her very very gently and slowly. Use the very tips of your fingers. Run them over her arms, neck, shoulders, lips, hands, legs, feet… everywhere. If you avoid her breasts, crotch, and ass, you’ll even get her more turned on for later (Remember anticipation? It will drive her crazy… “When is he going to touch my tits?”).
LABIAL MASSAGE
“Place a well-oiled (or lubed) hand over her labia, fingers pointing towards her anus. Pull up toward the navel and alternate hands. Explore the inner and outer lips with your fingers. Pull gently on one and then the other. Rub the outer lips gently between your forefinger and thumb, then the inner lips.”
A-ONE AND A-TWO AND A-THREE
“Try inserting your first two fingers into her, then arch your thumb back ‘hitch-hiker’ style and thrust in until your thumb rests against her clitoris. You can use a variety of thrusting and twisting motions in this position. You can also vibrate your entire hand.”
Some male genital massage strokes require only one hand. Here are some suggestions for things you can do with the “extra hand”:
Massage the legs or chest.
Tease the nipples or other erogenous zones (note: “connections” can be made between erotic arousal and almost any part of the body, by linking stimulation of the genitals with stimulation of this area).
Rub the perineum, possibly with an oiled fist or several fingers. For some men, this may stimulate the prostate gland.
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